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The Paradox of the Most Beautiful Woman

5259c9e8ab074d0779c8cafdf9e4-postWe’ve all seen a girl, that in our perspective, is a perfect 10. You desperately want to approach her but fear keeps you away. But, what if she never gets approached and desperate wants to be approached.

Doing the unrealistic is easier than doing the realistic,Tim Ferris, The 4-Hour Workweek

I was reminded of this, having coffee with my friend K. Transposing Tim Ferris on to game you get The Perfect 10 Paradox; Most guys don’t think they can pull the 9 or 10 so they go for the 6 and 7s.

It’s lonely at the top. Ninety-nine percent of people in the world are convinced they are incapable of achieving great things, so they aim for mediocre. The level of competition is thus fiercest for ‘realistic’ goals, paradoxically making them the most time- and energy-consuming… The fishing is best where the fewest go, and the collective insecurity of the world makes it easy for people to hit home runs while everyone else is aiming for base hits. There is just less competition for bigger goals.” – Tim Ferris

Most guys don’t believe they deserve the best. Instead they go for second best. Girls don’t dress up all sexy for no reason. They want you to notice. Most guys are too scared shitless approach her and if you can, with confidence then you’re already ahead of the competition.

So finally approach that girl who is out of your league. The whole league system is a myth anyway; start acting like it! Today my friend, you are going to approach the apex girl you’re thinking of.

You deserve the best. Act like it.


  1. Going for the women who aren’t already getting a ton of male attention is no brainer.

    If there is more than one of them, just pick the one you like best.

  2. Great stuff…the only caveat I’d posit is that average men are invisible to a lot of women, so even if a hot woman gets hit on by a bunch of guys, if none of them are bf material in her mind, you just have to add “that I want to date” to the end of her complaint “I never get approached by guys.”

  3. “Take for instance that kinda slutty, bigger girl with a cute/jizz on face, about a 6 or 7. On her pictures you have like 6 different guys commenting giving her way too much attention. Adversely the perfect 10 only has comments from her gal pals telling her how beautiful she looks.”

    I’ve observed that the 10 typically doesn’t get complimented for her looks by betas ’cause they are too scared to say it even on Facebook where they think they might be slapped down or something. The 6 or 7 on the other hand is considered easy game and gets a shit-ton of attention. Even in real life, I’ve seen that half-decent girls (nice body, but with a minor flaw, like slightly too skinny, a bit on the heavier side, rugged jaw, etc) paradoxically tend to have *more* beta orbiters because they think they might have a shot at getting her into bed at some time in the future.

    I’m going to approach the 9s and 10s regularly from now on. If nothing else, it will make shit testing easier. These sort of girls are often with cockblocks though, and negating the cockblock is important.

    • I agree completely.
      Cockblocker situations are always hard to play, let me know what you find works

    • If you’re not what she wants you can have your reputation easily destroyed (through relational aggression) so you cannot move on. Which is exactly why to live the player lifestyle (for the average man who isn’t) it is recommended that you are not tied down so that such a situation can’t arise.

      • When trying to pull a 10 and women in general, you cant care about what if she thinks about you or if she rejects you. Just accept it and move on. Anyways if you have confidence, and have remotely attractive looks, I bet my ass she will at least talk to u and not push u away.

  4. “it will make shit testing easier.”

    -I mean it will make *dealing* with shit testing (from average girls) much easier.

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