is your too proud to learn. Let me tell you something, the rookies and guys who aren’t afraid to make an ass out of themselves approaching every girl at the bar are the guys who are beating me and I can admit that. I’ve become pretty lazy about approaching girls at the bar. The worst part is I let this blog stop me from humbling myself enough to do the bad approaches. It’s ironic because the best bloggers like Roosh and G Manifesto are the same guys who have done more bad approaches than anyone else!
I working on my pride and have done a handful of cold approaches and every single one of them has been a crash and burn. One girl never responded, another showed lukewarm interest, and another whispered to her friend and walked off when I suggested we do something. Ok I’ll admit it, not how I was hoping things would go… Wow poor me, I did a hand full of approaches and one girl is kind of interested. It could be a lot worse.
Never be too proud to fail. Being too proud to approach is just another form of fear and being beta. Man up! When I’m in a situation when I’m completely debilitated by fear I do something pretty crazy… I visualize myself actually eating the black bleeding heart of fear. I just imagine going for the heart of what I’m afraid of, pulling it out, and eating that fear to make me stronger. It’s my method of converting negative fear into courage enough to make the move I was afraid to make. I’m still breaking beta.
Fear cuts deeper than swords.
- Arya Stark (Game of Thrones)